Is a Church Cashing In on Women's Porn Addiction?

May 3, 2010 RSS Feed Print
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By Bonnie Erbe, Thomas Jefferson Street blog

I must admit I fell right into the trap predicted by one church leader. But I have a hard time believing that "women addicted to pornography" is a growing problem and a trend that is going to exacerbate in the future.

The New York Times ran a story today about a Kansas mega-church that runs a program to help women addicted to pornography kick the habit. My initial reaction: How many women could be "addicted" to pornography? At best, I would believe it's a niche problem. One Craig Gross, a self-described youth pastor (apparently earning almost $10,000 per month selling 30-day online memberships to his program that helps people kick the pornography habit) told the Times some 20 percent of his customers are women:

…Mr. Gross said: “The problem is, most churches have male leadership, and if you want to pitch an event like that, they’ll say, ‘Our women don’t struggle with that.’ This is going to be the next wave, but you’re going to get a lot of blank stares. ‘Really? Come on, this isn’t a big deal.’”

So Mr. Gross predicted my reaction. We played "gotcha" and he won. However, it seems to me that the discovery of this niche market (females addicted to pornography) is just one more way for churches to gain followers. Porn addicts are convinced that a belief in Christ can save them. Psychological addictions are best treated by trained psychiatrists and psychologists, not pastors. Low-income people can't afford proper medical help. The church steps in and cashes in at the same time.

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This can be true, but not true. It is your faith in God that will see you through this addiction - but also continuous encouragement from loved one's will help. A very wise man once told me, "whoever made the lock also made the key.' if you got yourself addicted, you can get yourself out of it. If your choice is to go to church then so be it - just know that you are the one that can do this!! Have the faith! God is the answer.

Lalitha 6:31AM August 21, 2012

Your initial reaction deserves research. You didn't really do any reporting here on how many people (male and female) are addicted.

JR of UT 4:24PM March 07, 2012

I don't know what kind of training Mr. Gross has or what kind of results Mr. Gross is getting from his "treatment", however I am troubled that he appears to be getting rich off of other people's problems. A Christian thing to do might be to decrease the price of his expertice so that he is making a more modest income. As for the church profitting from this "ministry", this appears from the article to be strictly supposition of the writer. And this is one church and should not be applied to the rest of the Christian church in general. The power of Jesus Christ can lead many from all kinds of addictions, if the person is truly a disciple of Christ. I haven't had a drink of alcohol in 3+ years, and it was only by the power and the conviction of Jesus that made this possible. For the secular world that has no faith in our Lord and Savior, secular counciling would be the most logical and helpful approach.

Ron of LA 3:08PM June 25, 2010

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe is a contributing editor at U.S. News & World Report and hosts PBS's weekly news analysis program, To the Contrary with Bonnie Erbe. She also writes a weekly syndicated newspaper column for Scripps Howard News Service.

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