Obama Not Comfortable With Women in Basketball, Golf ... or Anywhere Else

October 27, 2009 RSS Feed Print

By Bonnie Erbe, Thomas Jefferson Street blog

President Obama drew heat last week for a story that surfaced outing his private White House male-only b-ball games. The story was that even though two female members of his cabinet were members of their college basketball teams, they were excluded, as were all women, from this most private of male-only clubs. The story became a metaphor for how the president views women generally and threatened to reveal some inconvenient truths about the man.

Now we see reports that gender-insensitivity charges have resonated with the Obama White House. According to Politics Daily, the president dragged chief domestic policy adviser Melody Barnes to the golf course on Sunday, and she became the first female to join his golf foursome since he took office. The event produced a photo op of global proportions.

President Obama could invite Chamique Holdsclaw to the private White House basketball court and Billie Jean King to play tennis with him. I still wouldn't believe he's any more comfortable dealing with women or concerned about "women's" issues than the dearly departed former Sen. Jesse Helms. President Obama talks the talk a lot better and a lot louder than Helms. But Jesse Helms was so rooted in his atavist traditions, he chose to remain true to his misogyny rather than pose for cameras with faux female golfing partners. President Obama must hide the side of his personality that is clearly uncomfortable with women because he needs their votes much more than Helms ever did.

Whether it was his treatment of Hillary Clinton on the campaign trail (as in his condescending remark that she was "likeable enough") or his clearly career-oriented mate who has been toned down and remorphed into a Stepford Wife, I just don't get the impression this man is comfortable with women. Nor do I believe he cares about them beyond needing women's votes. It's an act and a thoroughly see-through, amateur one at that.

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The guy is trying to manage a country and you want to criticise him for being uncomfortable around woman. Maybe you should ask Michelle. I am glad you are not managing this country.

k of CA 6:14AM February 26, 2011

I do not think Obama is pro-feminist at all. He constantly uses sexist language and doesn't seem inclined to pay Michelle back for her career sacrifices. (Yes, I think he should become a househusband after his presidental term is over.)

Unlike Michele Bachelet and Jose Luis Zapatero, Obama was never committed to having an equal number of women and men in his Cabinet. Even though he signed the Lilly Ledbetter Act, he hasn't made pay equity a priority in his Administration.

During the campaign, Michelle Obama said that she would make work-family balance isssues a priority. But I see no evidence of it. I hate to say it, but I do think she has become a Stepford Wife.

Kathleen Trigiani of TX 12:01AM January 05, 2010

I agree with this assessment of Obama and women. I figured out during the primaries that he was a sexist. Unfortunately, women's rights groups no longer defend the rights of women. They are just arms of the Democratic Party.

Susan of CA 11:45PM December 05, 2009

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe is a contributing editor at U.S. News & World Report and hosts PBS's weekly news analysis program, To the Contrary with Bonnie Erbe. She also writes a weekly syndicated newspaper column for Scripps Howard News Service.

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