Single Women: An Ominous Demographic Shift

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Earlier this week the New York Times reported that 51 percent of American women are single, a probable all-time high.

If that's accurate, it's not good news. We already know that the U.S. rate of unwed motherhood is skyrocketing and that gen X- and gen Y-ers have much less faith in the institution of marriage than we atavists, aka baby boomers. Children born to single mothers are more likely to live in poverty, perform poorly in school, and drop out.

But of all sources, an interesting online item from Baptist Press notes that there are quirks in the way the Times tabulated its data, which may artificially increase the percentage of women it categorizes in that 51 percent majority:

"The American Community Survey–the study used by the Times–included in its count of women who live alone spouses of deployed military personnel (note: which the Times reported) and other married women who live by themselves 'for reasons other than marital discord,' Robert Bernstein, an official with the U.S. Census Bureau, told Baptist Press."

But one thing the paper did not include, according to Baptist Press, is that "the report (on which the Times based its analysis) also counted among the number of women living alone those as young as age 15. That inclusion itself may have tilted the numbers in favor of those living alone without a spouse."

Wherever the truth lies, the fact that marriage seems to be so terribly out of fashion or out of reach for so many young Americans is not progress. And President Bush's marriage initiative, which plans to spend almost a half-billion dollars over a period of years funding (mainly) church groups to counsel young people to marry seems like wasted effort. I cannot posit a way to reverse this trend. Young Americans just seem to have lost their faith in marriage. Perhaps a generation of single parenthood will persuade them that as flawed as marriage may be, it beats the alternative.

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Interesting that the author would toot the horn of Baby Boomers. I see the problem of single women and single parents as a direct result of the "me first" culture propagated by Baby Boomers. Boomers, born with silver spoons in their mouths - off the heals of the prosperity from their hard-working, money-saving parents (who grew up in poverty and suffering). Boomers got the bright and liberal ideas of "me first", "sex now, marriage commitment later", and other eschewing of responsibility and culpability. That "me me me" culture grew and grew into a monster where Boomers got into relationships and marriages fast - then divorce, and in many times, repeat the cycle. Boomers' kids grew up seeing this pattern, practice it and pass it down to their kids- until we have the monster we have today.

I think the Boomers are the last group of people to be lambasting any generation over the issue of single women or single parents.

cryptblade of VA 12:29AM May 14, 2009

As a resident of the deep south, I think I can recognize Bible Babble when it has a flashing light and a siren: Bonnie, between this post quoting Baptist Press on the same level as the NYT, and your post about bringing more stigma to the unwed mothers of America, you sure sound like a Bible Babbler to me.

You may not be standing on the corner of Davis Highway and Brent Lane in Pensacola, FL, shouting at passing cars with a bible in your hands, but you can't fool us.

Enough with this Bible Babble nonsense. Our country needs real solutions based upon sound reasoning - not thinly disguised religion proposed as sound public policy.

Stigma isn't much fun when you are the one wearing it, now is it?

Stephen of FL 8:31PM May 13, 2009

You have made your choices,we should try to understand why,and how to avoid the development if we disagee!

shadowfax of IL 2:28PM May 13, 2009

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe

Bonnie Erbe is a contributing editor at U.S. News & World Report and hosts PBS's weekly news analysis program, To the Contrary with Bonnie Erbe. She also writes a weekly syndicated newspaper column for Scripps Howard News Service.

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