Is Marriage a Dying Institution?

Pew reports that the percentage of Americans married is at an all-time low

December 14, 2011 RSS Feed Print

A Pew Research Center/Time magazine study released Wednesday reports that the prevalence of marriage is at an all-time low, with just 51 percent of American adults married today. By contrast, in 1960, 72 percent of American adults were married. Furthermore, only 20 percent of 18-to-29-year-olds are married today, as opposed to 59 percent in 1960. Not surprising, given these numbers, is that 39 percent of Americans (from a 2010 report) see marriage becoming obsolete, up from 28 percent in 1978 when Time first asked whether it is. Despite the growing skepticism towards marriage, Americans still hold family dear, with over three-quarters reporting in 2010 that it is the most important element in their life. But how Americans define family depends on demographic, with younger, secular, and liberal Americans more accepting of unmarried cohabitation set-ups than their respective older, religious, or conservative counterparts. The 2010 study also found that the drop in marriage rates affected those at the bottom of socioeconomic scale than those at the top, with a 16 percent spread between married Americans without a high school degree  (48 percent) and those with a college degree or higher (64 percent).

What do you think? Is marriage a dying institution? Take the poll and comment below.

Is marriage a dying institution?

View Results

Previously: Should Drivers Be Banned from Using Cell Phones?

Tags:
Pew Research Center,
marriage

Reader Comments Read all comments (9)

Add Your Thoughts
Your comment will be posted immediately, unless it is spam or contains profanity. For more information, please see our Comments FAQ.

I voted yes for a lot of reasons, but mainly because a faculty member of my son's school just asked me for an affair during our meeting today. A little shocked, I said, "You're married, right? Is it an open marriage?" His reply, "No one has to know." I politely declined.

Also, I had a relationship over the summer with a man who is going through a divorce in which his spouse had decided she didn't want to be a wife nor mother anymore and left him to be with another man. The husband still has an emotional attachment to this women (who withheld "affection" during their entire 20 years of marriage) and he can't let himself become involved in any other serious relationship. I tried to be patient, but decided to move on after 5 months.

The man my friend's wife left him for is still married to a woman who has discovered she is a lesbian and wants a divorce.

Another close friend left his wife of 10 years because she wouldn't give him any affection either. Now he's in a mutual love relationship with a woman who is married and plans to stay that way until her children are grown up. Both parties are miserable.

None of these couples should have ever been married in the first place, in my opinion.

fyi, I am a divorced woman who should never have been married to the man I was with for 24 years. I tried to stay for the kids' sake, but we are just not compatible.

These are all real stories -- I'm not clever enough to come up with them on my own! Not sure I believe in marriage ...at this moment at least.

Anonymous for a Reason of MO 2:23PM January 25, 2012

I do not think that marriage is a dying institution as much as it is a changing institution. The age of first marriage is increasing,probably reflecting the self-absorption of 20-30 yr olds with their career advancement over thoughts of sharing lifelong commitment with another person. The high divorce rate I think reflects the difficulty many have in transitioning from that focus on self to focus on family. But I think that marriage, with a public affirmation of mutual commitment, offers the best hope for emotional and financial security for the couple as well as any children. This becomes acutely apparent during middle and later ages, when health issues and loneliness often are overwhelming for singles or the loosely committed.

Sipaco of OH 11:56PM January 02, 2012

Marriage is complete waste of time for a man.

Statistics show 50% or more of the marriages will end in divorce. You don’t need to marry someone, to love them and be with them. Marriage is nothing more than a completely outdated legally binding contract. Those of you that are the high earner or the one that possessed most of the premarital assets, will find out the very hard way how unfair Family courts are. You will become nothing more than a human ATM to your ex-spouse especially if you were married more than 5 years. If you made the HUGE mistake of having children, you will be paying for at least 16 years, possibly 23yrs. In equitable distribution states (yeah equitable alright, haha) you will lose 50-80% of all that you accumulated during the marriage, as well as 50-80% of ALL your premarital assets in some states. If your ex is awarded alimony you could be paying FOR THE REST OF THE LIFE ! 97% of the alimony payers are men. To me, in 2011, except for the tax break you may get being married, for any high earner of those of high net worth, THERE IS NO REASON TO GET MARRIED, period.

The divorce industry is a multi-billion $$$ machine, that will ruined all high earners, and those that inherited significant family assets. Seriously, if you want to be truly loved get a pet. If you have a hankering for children, there are many needy children in the world you can adopt. Or volunteer for big brother or big sister. The end of marriage is that natural end point for the grossly unfair rules of family courts. Hopefully all divorce lawyers and courts will go out of business, but sometimes you can’t stop people from making big huge mistakes…..that is life.

Joe Smith of MD 1:30PM January 01, 2012

advertisement

Debate Club

Was 2011 One of the Worst Years for the U.S. Government in American History?

Experts debate where 2011 ranks among Washington's worst years.

Latest Video

Thomas Jefferson Street Blog

May Unemployment Rate Dooms Barack Obama

With unemployment now at 8.2 percent, Mitt Romney is poised to gain ground with voters.

Planned Parenthood Pulls a Komen on Mitt Romney

Planned Parenthood successfully targeted the Susan G. Komen Foundation and is now getting political by campaigning against Mitt Romney.

Bill Clinton Undercuts Barack Obama in Wisconsin

Former President Bill Clinton is campaigning for Democrats across the country, disregarding Obama's campaign strategies.

Barack Obama Doesn’t Get a Pass on Poland Gaffe

The president's error and half-hearted apology is a serious diplomatic mistake.

Mitt Romney's Ridiculous Unemployment Reaction

Romney's dramatic reaction to the May jobs report makes him look false and calculating.

What John Edwards Tells Us About the Legal Profession

The legal profession is experiencing a very serious breakdown of ethics.

What the GOP Should Do if Obamacare Falls

If Obamacare is struck down by the Supreme Court, the Democrats are responsible for proposing another plan.

Barack Obama and George Bush Show Congress How to Act Like Adults

Obama and Bush are capable of acting like adults. Why isn't Congress?

advertisement