Top 10 Places for Swinging Single Seniors to Retire

You’re never too old to fall in love—or fall apart

By Emily Brandon

Posted: February 20, 2009

New love at an older age could strike at any moment—probably when you least expect it. Don't shy away from a new romantic adventure. “Dating is one of the most fun, life-affirming, exhilarating experiences that can come into your life,” says Judith Sills, a clinical psychologist and author of Getting Naked Again: Dating, Romance, Sex, and Love When You've Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted. “It is being 19 again, but knowing everything you know now, and that is something not to be missed.”

Ten great places for single seniors to retire:

Oh no! Sexism Should Be Dead by This Time!

What is so very, very wrong about this advice?

“Try some activity that you are not very good at and ask for help,” advises Gray. “Men bond with women more easily when they are doing something to help the woman.”

In other words, "Women, play dumb...let the Big Man be the Big Man?"

I certainly do hope that other women are more self-respecting than to think that this idea will attract a relationship that will make them happy!

John Grey is a victim of the 50s....and not an intelligent one....

san jose of CA @ Oct 20, 2009 23:48:04 PM

Fun place to live for single baby boomer?

I couldn't take the heat in Florida anymore and am spending the summer in The Jersey Shore Area. (Bored Here)

Where is a great city for single (58) people to live? Please, no Sun City, etc. Not my cup of tea.

I'm searching for a place where I can hear some great music and there are some fun, lively singles1

Kathryn of NJ @ Jul 27, 2009 16:34:19 PM

Single in San Diego. Attn: Kathy, Brian

I have lived in San Diego for eight unhappy years. By the time my "Fixer upper" condo was ready to be put on the market, there was no market! So I'm stuck here until I can sell my condo for as much as I paid, including improvements.

Kathy, I agree about the weather here, the best in the U.S.. But that and the ocean and close proximity to hills/mountains is all. The people that are friendly are also flakey They don't follow through on committments,not talking about living together, more like a phone call. It's difficult to find people that are interested, or even aware that forty-nine other states exist, much less other continents. For most, the weekend starts sometime before noon on Fridays, even if their jobs don't. I learned the first year or so, not to try to reach anyone if I needed information or any kind of help, just wait for Tuesday. Mondays aren't too good either, employees are recovering from their three day weekend. The lack of intellectual curiosity is astonishing! The last complaint that I will mention is that one must be wealthy to partake of the arts or any cultural endevors.

Brian, I also appreciate the attributes you mentioned about Hawaii. But don't you miss the lack of culture, or for that matter, the lack of intellect? It'seven worse than San Diego!

Waiting for the housing market to return. Lilli

Lilli @ Jun 23, 2009 14:59:53 PM

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