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5 Reasons to Turn Down a Job Offer

By Alison Green

Posted: October 26, 2009

In this economy, it's easy to feel like you should jump at any job offer that comes along. But doing that could land you in a job that would make you miserable and could even harm you professionally. Here are five reasons to consider turning down a job offer:

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1. Your gut. Unless your gut is known for paranoid overreacting, you should listen when it's setting off alarm bells. If something doesn't feel right, or you experience inexplicable dread when you imagine yourself in the job, pay attention. Your subconscious is probably picking up on danger signs.

2. The job is over your head. You do not want to bluff your way into a job for which you aren't actually qualified. If the work doesn't play to your strengths, you'll struggle and could even end up getting fired. It amazes me how many people don't realize this.

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3. You have a bad feeling about the person who would be your boss. The old saying that "people leave bosses, not jobs," is right. Make sure the manager is someone you'd want to work with.

4. The salary. On one hand, if you're unemployed, any salary is better than no salary. But if you accept a salary far below what the market says you're worth, you're likely to leave as soon as something with better pay comes along. That isn't fair to the employer, and it may burn bridges that you'll wish you had in the future.

5. The culture. If the culture is very formal and you go crazy when you're not in a relaxed environment, or if it's an aggressive, combative environment and you are more low-key and reserved, this probably isn't going to be a happy home for you.

You're going to be spending a large chunk of your waking life at this job. Be honest with yourself about whether you're going to thrive there.

Alison Green is the author of Managing to Change the World: The Nonprofit Leader's Guide to Getting Results. She is chief of staff for the Marijuana Policy Project, a nonprofit lobbying organization, where she oversees day-to-day management of the staff as well as hiring, firing, and staff development. Her writings have been published in the Washington Post, the New York Times, Maxim, and dozens of other newspapers. She blogs at Ask a Manager.

Your gut is so important

I fully agree with Paul. I did this myself, last year. Left a nice, stable job with a great boss for a seemingly great company with great perks and a slightly higher salary. Like Alison said, my gut told me that might not be the right job for me. And the closer I got to the starting date, the more hesitant I became. True enough, 3 days into the job, it was just unbearable for me. I put in my 2 weeks notice on monday the week after.

I wish that I didn't leave that nice, stable job, but sometimes we make a wrong move in life. But if I could do this all over again (or stumbled into this kind of article!!), I'd definitely not take that job!

Calchick of CA @ Nov 06, 2009 12:36:02 PM

Turned Down a Good Job

Had been through 3 rounds of interviews with Company A, was perfect for the position, and was the final candidate. Was told I had one more interview which was a "meet and greet" with some Board members, and then they would hand me the offer afterwords. Meet and greet? Try grueling, intense, high pressure grilling. After which, no "hand me" offer. HR rep admitted they lied to me to "set me up" to see how I handled the stressful situation. Got another offer the next day from another company (which I almost blew off because Company A was 'in the bag') and then an offer from the "set up" company. I thought, if they thought it was okay to lie and toy with me as a candidate, how would they treat me as an employee? Turned them down even though the money was somewhat better and am happily at the company that made the 'lower' offer, but treated me fairly.

Peter of NJ @ Oct 30, 2009 11:03:12 AM

grass not greener on other side.

leaving one job to go to another .

i took this job because it paid a little bit more than my last one. a little bit closer to home .my last job been there a long time happy there .i wish i didn,t leave there . it,s not worth a little bit more $$$.my new job is very anal about mistake .one mess up you are crucified.makes things most difficult and miserable, very few people there speak english.no predjudice in me.. so sometimes a little bit more chump change $$ is not worth it at all.

bottom line don,t leave job if you are somewhat happy there.go extra mile it,s worth it.

paul of MA @ Oct 30, 2009 10:48:35 AM

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