How to Overcome the Perfectionist's Definition of Failure

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Michael, not only does accepting that you are less than perfect make life a lot less stressful, it also opens the door to a lot more potential. The less we're worried about doing things perfectly, the more we're willing to take risks.

It's wild what a positive impact setting lower (i.e., actually realistic) standards can have. Glad you discovered that first-hand.

Curt Rosengren of WA @ Jul 27, 2009 12:32:14 PM

story of my life

I think my whole childhood was impacted by this type of thinking, as I've always been extremely perfectionistic. It's only in the last few years that I've finally grown in self-confidence as I set slightly lower standards for myself, instead of the impossibilities I once aimed for. I think it's a transition a lot of people have to go through as they mature. And accepting you are less than perfect makes life a lot less stressful.

Michael of WI @ Jul 23, 2009 22:55:13 PM

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Thanks Muser. I'm glad you liked it.

Janmc, very cool to hear it connected with you.

Curt Rosengren of WA @ Jul 23, 2009 15:27:52 PM

Great Article

Ahhh, I'm already feeling relief.

Janmc of CA @ Jul 23, 2009 11:44:07 AM

Thanks, Curt.

Another insightful article.

Muser of NM @ Jul 23, 2009 09:57:56 AM

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