Alpha Consumer

Addicted to Shopping

By Kimberly Palmer

Posted: July 28, 2008

Just when many consumers are trying hard to stick to budgets, some companies are doing whatever they can to persuade us to ignore those frugal plans.

Last night on television, I saw a Discover Card ad that began, "We are a nation of consumers. And there's nothing wrong with that," against a backdrop of plasma televisions and iPods. Oh, really, there's nothing wrong with that? With the personal savings rate hovering around 0 percent and the average American carrying $16,635 in debt (excluding mortgages), I would argue that there's a lot wrong with that.

While relatively weak retail sales throughout this year suggest that many consumers are ignoring these kind of advertisements and tightening their belts anyway, there's plenty of evidence to suggest at least some shoppers are splurging like they always have. A new survey from HSBC Direct found that over half of respondents said they "splurged" within the last month, because it relieves stress, it feels good, or they simply deserve it. In fact, 1 in 5 respondents said saving money requires more discipline than quitting cigarettes. I don't mean to be insensitive to people who struggle with shopping addictions (a condition that afflicts about 2 to 5 percent of the population), but if spending feels as addictive as nicotine, it's time to seek professional help.

The survey does not describe just what kinds of things people are splurging on, so it's hard to judge how much it matters. To some people, a latte is a splurge. To others, it might mean a new Pucci dress. I strongly believe in the pleasures of small purchases and think everyone should find a way to set aside a small amount each week for things that make them happy, such as a yoga class or chocolate-chip cookie. But splurging out of habit sounds like a waste to me.

What do you think—are you prosplurge or skeptical of its benefits?

I've also seen that commercial! I don't think there's anything wrong with being a nation of consumers.. but then again I'm addicted to shopping. Like I actually have a serious problem. I just bought $8263.89 worth of clothes, and it only took me about twenty minutes. I don't know why, but shopping gives me this unbelievable high, and I'm so happy the day I order the clothes, the day they arrive, and every day I wear them. Only 5-10 business days! I can't wait!! I got the CUTEST shirts.. and this amazing dark blue sweater..

um, yeah,

consuming is nice.

Danielle Cramer of OR @ Aug 16, 2008 15:14:09 PM

Grace- I am thinking of exploring this issue further and am looking for people willing to talk about their struggles against spending... if you wouldn't mind chatting with me, please email me at alphaconsumer@usnews.com. thanks so much.

Kimberly Palmer of @ Jul 29, 2008 12:48:29 PM

When I was going through a particularly difficult and unhealthy dating relationship, I was into splurging on clothes shopping. A new outfit always makes me feel a little better about myself, but in this case, I was trying to prove to myself and to [him] that I was desirable and beautiful.

I am now emotionally stable and in a very healthy marriage. Looking back on that time, I can see that my splurges were not only poor decisions, but lies that I was believing about myself as I tried to make up for the pain I was going through. There was a deeper issue than simply being wasteful with my money.

Now when I'm tempted to splurge, I consider the source of the desire...am I trying to prove something? cover pain? believing lies about myself?

It also helps to be completely honest and open with my husband about when I feel like splurging. It is OUR money, so I always ask him when I want something that goes beyond our basic needs.

Grace of VA @ Jul 29, 2008 12:45:40 PM

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Kimberly Palmer, senior editor for U.S. News & World Report, writes about how to save money, avoid scams, manage debt, and be a savvy shopper. Send your personal finance questions to her for expert money advice.


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