Positive Emotional Psychology: Have a 'Daily Diet' of Positive Emotions

We need 3 positive emotions for every negative emotion, says psychology expert

By Lindsay Lyon

Posted: June 24, 2009

Joy. Interest. Love. Serenity. Awe. Amusement. Pride. Such positive emotions, fleeting feelings that last just seconds or minutes, are the subject of Barbara Fredrickson's research. Fredrickson, a professor of psychology at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill, examines how they can alter our thoughts and actions for the better. She finds, for example that when we're under the influence of positive emotions, our awareness expands. "We literally see more," she says. "Our peripheral vision is expanded." (Negative emotions, on the other hand, narrow our thinking.) She also finds that people who increase their "daily diet" of positive emotions develop closer connections with others, their resilience and optimism strengthens, and they become less depressed and more satisfied with life, compared with people who do nothing to experience them more frequently.

This isn't to suggest it's necessary to strive for constant euphoria—even mild positive emotions can impact a person's growth and outlook over time, she says. Nor must negative emotions be banished. In fact, doing so would be unhealthy, she adds. Instead, Fredrickson has identified a "prescription" for attaining balance between those polar feelings, the amount of each people need to flourish. On average, "we all need at least three positive emotions to lift us up for every negative emotion that drags us down," she says, a "positivity ratio" that arose from work she and a colleague published in 2005. People truly in the "flourishing zone" surpass that mark, although most of us clock in at 2 to 1 or even lower, she says.

The good news, says Fredrickson: "There are multiple ways to raise your ratio." You can increase your positive emotions, you can decrease your negative emotions, or you can do both, she says. Learning to meditate, for example, can boost positive emotions, Fredrickson has found, though a run in the woods, dancing, or reading a new cookbook work best for her. Evidence suggests that there's a correlation between experiencing positive emotions in life and living longer, says Fredrickson, who encourages people to visit her free website and track their positivity ratio nightly for two weeks to see what their average is. Doing so might help you learn the sources of your positive emotions and the triggers for your negative ones. "The truth emerging from the science is that feeling good is a wise investment in our future," she says.

Going three for three on ideas...

Forgot to add to the other posting that to "decrease" negative vibes, one trick is to avoid malicious gossips.

Every workplace has them, but the attitude can be toxic to be around.

Find a way to be too busy to participate in it, and go do whatever it is so that you are "busy" and cannot get dragged into it.

Gossip can just ruin a day, because it reminds people that life is so competitive, and that during the recession, even though it's ending, gossip is ratcheted up as people perceive each other as competitors for scarce resources.

Find a way to be "too busy" for it. Invent something you absolutely need to do and get away from it.

And always always remember that when it comes to negative stuff, like gossip, if someone gossips TO you, they will gossip ABOUT you.

Run for your life from this type of daily downer.

Angie Koutrotsios of IL @ Sep 23, 2009 11:57:39 AM

Just to add

Bunny watching not recommended for avid gardeners if they want to have a "positive" moment.

Cute as they are, they tend to eat everything in sight.

If you garden, be sure there's a deep enough fence that goes down into the ground, so the bunnies won't dig underneath and still find a way in to nosh on your vegetables.

Angie Koutrotsios of IL @ Sep 23, 2009 11:49:17 AM

Bunny rabbits!

It might sound corny, unless you're a rabbit lover, but if you really want to have a "daily diet" of positive energy, there's nothing more cute and adorable than bunnies, wild or domestic.

After reading this article and then going to look outside to find the local resident cottontail rabbits nibbling on the lawn, I found two of them. Both went up to each other and sniffed the other one right on the nose, so it looked like they were kissing.

More bunny cuddling and snuggling occurs with the domestic house pet rabbits, too.

See http://www.rabbit.org and click on the pictures section link for more "daily" cuteness.

Gotta recommend a bunny a day.

Angie Koutrotsios of IL @ Sep 23, 2009 11:45:21 AM

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