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Teens Think Drinking on MySpace, Facebook Is Real

By Nancy Shute

Posted: October 30, 2009

Teenagers spend lots of time on MySpace, Facebook, and other social media sites talking about what they do. Often that talk is about underage drinking, risky sexual activity, and violence. But does it describe their actual activities, or is it just bragging?

About half of teenagers' social media posts refer to drinking, sex, or violence, according to Megan Moreno, an assistant professor of pediatrics at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. That discovery, which was reported earlier this year, left Moreno wondering if all that chatter was reality or trash talk. She's still working on answering that question, but she has found out this: Kids do think that what they see on social media sites is real, and the younger they are, the more they believe it. That's important, because teenagers are powerfully influenced by the behavior of their peers.

"There is good data that if kids think their friends are drinking, they're more likely to drink," Moreno says. "The perception of normal is powerful." Teenagers' behavior also is influenced by seeing behavior on television and hearing about it on the radio and in music. Social media combines those two influences. "Say it's the most popular kid in your school, and they're [pictured] drinking. You might drink to be more like that kid," she says.

Moreno asked 32 teenagers between the ages of 11 and 18 whether they thought the alcohol use they saw pictured or mentioned on social media sites was real. (This work is published in the October Journal of Adolescent Health.) The younger the child, the more likely they were to think it was legit. Personal photographs were considered particularly convincing "evidence."

Moreno doesn't yet have hard data on how much of the teenage drinking on social media sites is real. She thinks some of it is, some is nonsense, and some is a "gesture of intention"—that is, a teen may be thinking of getting into the drinking scene and is testing the waters by putting up pictures or writing about it. That, she says, is good news for parents who want to know what's up with the kid. It's also a great time to step in.

Other recent surveys have found that most parents are clueless about what their children are posting and reading on social media sites. Moreno sees her own research not as reason to despair but as impetus to get involved. "This provides an opportunity for parents to look at these types of websites with their kids," Moreno says. "Ask them what they think. Do you think it is real? What do you think about drinking? It's a way to have an educational experience."

What are u nuts

THE TEENS ARE DRINKING AND POSTING THE PICTURES ON MYSPACE I HAVE SEEN ALL TEEN PARTIES WITH PARENTS THERE AS I AM A PARENT I GO ON MY DAUGHTERS PAGE AND CHECK HER WALL FOR COMMENTS AND PICTURES AND HAS BEEN ALLOT OF TEENS THAT I SEE ADDING PICTURES ON THEIR PAGES WHERE THEY ARE DRINKING IN THE WOODS OR WHERE EVER THIS IS NOTHING NEW WE ALL DID IT AS YOUNG TEENS I HAD MY FIRST DRINK WHEN I WAS 15. U KNOW THAT IT IS HAPPENING IT ALWAYS HAS SO GIVE IT A REST AND AS OF SOME OF THESE PARENTS WHERE ARE THEY??? THEY DON'T SEEM TO GIVE A DAMN WHAT THERE KIDS ARE UP TO I HAVE BEEN LAYED OFF OF WORK FOR OVER A YEAR AND I SEE SO MUCH GOING ON WITH THESE KIDS AND I DON'T WANT TO KNOW I HAVE CONTACTED PARENTS, BUT THEN WHEN NOTHING GETS DONE AND U HAVE SAID SOMETHING IT ENDS UP BAD FOR YOUR KID. SO HONESTLY EACH PARENT SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THERE KIDS ACTIONS THEY SHOULD KEEP A CLOSER EYE ON THEM THERE FOR I BELIEVE IT IS THE PARENTS FAULT! WHAT EVER HAPPENED IF A KID WAS STAYING THE NIGHT OVER AT YOUR HOUSE THAT THE PARENT WANTS TO TALK TO U. I HAVE ASKED PARENTS TO CALL ME OTHER WISE THE KID IS NOT ALLOWED TO SLEEP OVER BUT IF IT IS MY KID STAYING OUT I WANNA KNOW WHERE THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO BE BUT MOST PARENTS DON'T TAKE THE TIME OR THE EFFORT TO MAKE SURE. SO AS I SAID ITS THE PARENTS. WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO GOOD PARENTING THAT MUST HAVE WENT DOWN THE TUBE IN THE 1980'S

MARK ALSTON of PA @ Nov 07, 2009 21:29:35 PM

drinking

I think that drinking is very irresponsible for parents to do around their kids because that's whaere most kids get it from. Im only 13 but i feel that there's more to just their friends. Some grew up in homes where drinking was aloud. It is very natural for them to catch on to the habit. A very bad habit.

Imani Faison of NC @ Nov 06, 2009 08:04:31 AM

i am a teen girl

I am a teenage girl who recently turned 20 and I do honestly believe that teens using myspace or facebook and are posting about drinking are not necessarily doing it. A lot of my friends who don't drink post about drinking and I know they really aren't. I mean teens are just doing it because they think that's what they're supposed to be doing because that is what they see on myspace or facebook. I guess it's just like "monkey see, monkey do" type behavior. To break down the behavior even further, it is just more of a normal teen thing to talk about themselves drinking. Teens naturally like to brag about things, even when they haven't done it themselves. When they see other friends posting about it or pictures of them drinking, they assume that is what they're supposed to be doing. Even though rational adults see this behavior as irrational. It all comes back down to peer pressure.

I live in a state where drinking is a normal activity. A lot of kids I know have grown up with parents who are extremely relaxed about drinking and think it's no big deal. I, however, think it is a big deal. Parents doing this give their kids the idea that it is okay to drink even though it's not when you're underage. I mean some of these parents even host drinking parties for their kids and their friends. They assume that as long as they're in control and in their house that it's okay. It's not, cause as soon as those kids leave their house they no longer have control and are putting other people in danger. I have close friends who have gotten underage drinking tickets the first time they ever drank. It is asinine to think that these parents just don't care about other people's safety or their own child's safety. I personally don't drink. My boyfriend, who is 24, does drink and I am always his designated driver. He seemed to think it was okay to drive after having only 3 beers. I am completely against drinking and driving because one of my close friends was hit by a drunk driver and is paralyzed from the waist down because of it. When I introduced my boyfriend to my friend, he swore to me that he would never do it again. And to this day, he hasn't.

So honestly, I think that this issue is something that parents can nip in the butt. If they see their child posting about drinking, they need to confront them as soon as possible. That way they can explain to them that drinking underage is not a wise decision and can have serious consequences. My parents both have myspaces and facebooks so they can keep an eye on what me and my sister are posting so they can talk to us about issues that they see on our pages. I don't mind it, but my sister does just because she's one of those girls who is super secretive. So having them have myspaces and facebooks, keeps us in check.

An Average Wisconsin Girl of WI @ Nov 04, 2009 14:42:04 PM

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