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How to Choose the Best High School for Your Child

Parents should consider diversity, community, and programs when choosing high schools for their kids.

May 9, 2012 RSS Feed Print
Consider community and technology when choosing the best high school for your child.

Visiting high schools ahead of time will help you gauge where your child will learn best.

Erik Clemons of New Haven, Conn., has a slew of daughters. The oldest, Kiara, graduated from Smith College and is considering law school; Nyle is a freshman biology major at Tuskegee University in Alabama; Nia is a high school sophomore; and Kai is finishing up 6th grade.

The education of their daughters is incredibly important to Erik and his wife, Sharon, and when the family moved from Norwalk, Conn., to New Haven, they looked closely at its public high school system. They met with principals and teachers and visited the schools while they were in session. The quality of New Haven Public Schools was one of the deciding factors in moving to the new city, Erik says.

"We looked at curriculum; we looked at rigor; [and] we looked at creativity and innovation as it relates to teaching instruction," Erik says. Diversity also played a key role in choosing New Haven schools, he notes.

"It was important to my wife and I—being African-American—that there were teachers and school leaders who were sensitive to cultural issues," Erik says, "and that there were people in the school, teachers and school leaders, who look like our children."

Lewis Chappelear, a James Monroe High School teacher in Los Angeles, suggests that all parents consider diversity when choosing high schools for their kids. Diversity is important, Chappelear says, "Because we want our children to be tomorrow's leaders, and the best leaders in the world think about everybody."

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Visiting a school while it's in session not only gives parents an idea of its diversity, but also a chance to talk with teachers and see students switch classes, says Betsy Landers, president of the National Parent Teacher Association and mother of three high school graduates.

Getting a feel for the school in person makes it easier to tell if that school is a good fit for your child, Landers says. Her two sons loved attending Germantown High School, a large public school in Tennessee. But she sent her more introverted daughter to a smaller school that, Landers says, "afforded her to be a part of sports, clubs, and things that in a larger school, she probably would not have risked."

Landers suggests parents explore the website of their state's department of education, where, among other things, they can check out the different kinds of schools in a region. Chappelear, the Los Angeles teacher, thinks parents should be open to all school models.

"There is no one perfect model. In some cases the charter school is the best choice, in some cases, the private school is the best choice, and in many cases, it's the public school that's the best choice," he says.

Many times, that choice comes down to the different programs schools offer—such as dual enrollment, Advanced Placement courses, and International Baccalaureate programs. Landers says parents from across the county sent their kids to Germantown High School, for example, because of its strong broadcast and theater programs.

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In the Clemons family, Kiara attended Cooperative High School, where she was able to take many dance classes. The second daughter, Nyle, who was more interested in science, attended Hill Regional Career High School, whose partnership with Yale School of Medicine gave her the opportunity to study the human body with cadavers.

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My daughter began High School in a public suburban school in Lancaster, N.Y. (near Buffalo) She had been an honor roll student and cheerleader in her former school with all the enthusiasm a mother could ask for in a teenager going into a new school system .(We had moved just outside the district of her former school.) Although Lancaster had been dubbed "heroin high" even from when I was in high school, I truely believed Jessica would do well, even considering the personal issues she had over come and the strength she had posessed from a young age. Jess is/was not your typical teenage girl, she faced life head on and wasn't afraid much. Her passions run deep and her heart is bigger than even I know what to do w/ sometimes. I realize I sound like the stereo-typical Mom. However, I can not count the people she has touched...just with a smile. I have to say, I believe Jessica has been blessed with true gifts. Her personality and dark brown hair with magnetic blue eyes never fail to amaze me. Strangers are captivted, and time seems to stop- just as they catch their breath. The beauty of it all, is that she is truely unaware as to how her intellect, attitude, grace and lovely she is. Not to mention how hysterically witty she can be! September 2012 came, as did Jessica's freshman year. I wasn't suprised when she was invited to join a group of kids on their limo-bus for Home Comming. Nor was I when her phone took on a life of it's own, literally opperating as co-pilot. And, as I predicted a freshman girl had become her newly formed "BFF." "Attached at the hip" as my Mother would put it, were Jess and Kristie. When my fiance' & I met Kris we thought she was a bit obnoxious and, in my opinion could have toned down the orange bronzer and thick black eye make-up, but hey, she looked like Snooky from J.S. (that's all I know of the show is her looks) Meanwhile, and regrettably my daughter was learning far more from Kristy than school. Let me say it is terribly difficult to say this about person, much less a child...Kristy was vermin that had strategically worked her way Jessica's entire being. I know how it sounds. However, when a father smokes cocaine with his daughter then teaches her all the cunning, repulsive skills it takes to be a malicious, corrupt drug pusher and addict...you get a girl who manipulates, lies and robs someone like Jess of her goals, dreams,freshman yr., morals, reputation, ect...Thankfully not her life! As her first year of high school wraps up, I wish I could say my beautiful, bright and once happy daughter is looking forward to a fun-filled summer with her boyfriend & family. Yet, the damage brought on by a toxic child has left Jessica undeniably a changed person. Jess cry's, I pray. GOD, help my child. Please LORD, I beg you give her a second chance, grant her the ability and tremendous strength it takes to over-come the demons that haunt her.LORD, please allow Jessica the wisdom to live her life, not feed an addiction,as I did.

Jennifer McCarthy of NY 5:37PM May 27, 2012

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yves of NY 1:34PM May 25, 2012

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