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Same-Sex 'Marriage' Would Lead to a Push for Polygamy

Only the traditional union of a man and a woman truly serves society

October 7, 2011

About Peter Sprigg:

Peter Sprigg is senior fellow for policy studies at the Family Research Council in Washington. He is the author of the book Outrage: How Gay Activists and Liberal Judges Are Trashing Democracy to Redefine Marriage and he was co-editor of the FRC book Getting It Straight: What the Research Shows about Homosexuality.

Marriage is a public institution (not purely a private relationship) because it serves two public purposes: bringing together men and women for the reproduction of the human race, and keeping together a man and woman to raise to maturity the children produced by their union.

The existence of future generations of children is fundamental to the survival of any society. The quality of their nurture is directly related to the quality of life within that society. Bonding the man and woman whose sexual union produces a child to one another and to that child is by far the healthiest way of insuring that nurture.

Opposite-sex relationships are the only type capable of producing children through natural intercourse, and the only ones assured of providing children with both a mother and a father. Affirming only opposite-sex relationships as "marriage" thus makes perfect sense.

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The common sense understanding that children should have both a mother and a father is now supported by reams of social science data. The research leaves no doubt that children raised by their own biological mother and father, who are committed to one another in a lifelong marriage, are happier, healthier, and more prosperous than children in any other living situation.

Changing the natural definition of marriage would amount to a declaration that procreation is unimportant, and that children do not need a mother or father. This would inevitably lead to a further deconstruction of marriage and the family—and fewer children being raised by a married mother and father—at a time when those institutions should be strengthened instead.

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Where marriage has been redefined, we have already seen the forced subsidization of homosexual relationships, infringements on religious liberty, and aggressive pro-homosexual propaganda in the schools.

Research also shows that homosexuals are less likely to enter into long-term partnerships, less likely to be sexually faithful to a partner, and less likely to see their relationships last a lifetime. Incorporating this behavior into society’s concept of "marriage" would lead to a decline in commitment, fidelity, and permanence for marriages across the board.

It is no more "discrimination" to bar marriage to a person of the same sex than it is to bar marriage to a person who is already married, a close blood relative, or a child. If same-sex "marriage" is legalized, we can be certain that a push for polygamy will not be far behind.

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I'd really like to see some of these "reams of data" the author tries to cite. Here is a fact: same-sex marriage has absolutely no effect on the strength of opposite-sex marriages. Here is another fact: the author is a scientifically proven idiot. Why should you accept my assertions? Because I said there were facts to back them up, just like the author did here. Do I expect you to take my word for it? No, and in the same respect I'm not accepting what this guy tells me is fact without some supporting evidence (and neither should you). Most opponents to same-sex marriage would be surprised if they did some research and made up their own minds instead of parroting what some left-wing conservative is told to say by his Catholic pastor.

Joe of OH 10:39PM May 07, 2012

From what Im getting on here they are saying that the only reason people are able to get married is the simple fact that they can reproduce for our future. What about people who are sterile? They cant reproduce yet they are still able to get married. If they are sterile then they have to go through the same process as gays would to have a child. So why cant gays get married? Its supposed to be a ceremony showing that two people are in love and have fully committed their lives to each other. I bet if they would legalize gay marriage worldwide, there would be more people of the opposite sex getting a divorce then those of the same sex. Unless the government is only thinking about money. It makes no sense to me. If you are going to try and bring up the bible into the reason why gay marriage is not legal then that would be contradicting why they dont study it in schools or at most jobs. Everyone has their own religion and beliefs so the bible has nothing to do with gay marriage. The only reason they wont legalize it is because they are scared of what they dont understand. We cannot help how we feel. This is our deformity. People are born with their nose near their ear or their head too big or too small. Birth marks covering their face or body and they feel uncomfortable going into the public eye because of how people look at them. They look at them in disgust because they dont understand why those people dont look normal. Well neither are we. We were born in the wrong gender and we would love to get it fixed just as much as they would.So how are we so different than anyone else in this world? If you took the time to sit down and talk to some of these people you would find that you have a lot in common and you will be touch by the story of their lives and what they have to go through to feel like they are they same on the outside as they are on the inside. I just wish more people would understand that.

Maxx Oakley of FL 9:34PM November 07, 2011

It would seem that this line of reasoning oversimplifies the question at hand. Marriage, from a religious moral context, MAY exist for propagation and ensuring a stable environment in which to raise children. However, if one were to accept this view, then the institution is already highly in question with the divorce rates skyrocketing, and out of wedlock births increasing as well.

There is also another purpose of marriage, and that is as a civil contract to secure legal rights and protections. One may participate in the latter conception, without believing or participating in the former. This can be seen with couples who choose not to marry in the church, and in many cases not to procreate, but rather to secure the legal rights and protections of marriage, which have little or nothing to do with procreation and raising a family. Spousal privilege, kinship, spousal benefits, power of attorney, ease of joint ownership of property, and numerous other legal benefits come simply by going to the courthouse and obtaining a marriage license.

The 14th Amendment states that:

"All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."

Simply put, marriage is a protection of the law in all 50 States, homosexuals are persons, and laws that restrict homosexuals from being able to marry do abridge the rights of US citizens, unconstitutionally.

Brian of OH 5:17PM November 01, 2011

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