Thursday, November 12, 2009

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John Aloysius Farrell

Catholic Church Should End Celibacy Rule, Let Rev. Cutie and Other Priests Marry

May 12, 2009 10:09 AM ET | John Aloysius Farrell | Permanent Link | Print

By John Aloysius Farrell, Thomas Jefferson Street blog

A handsome priest named Cutie. Fame. Television. What did we expect?

You would think that after all the molestation scandals of recent years, the Catholic Church would give its priests a break and let them choose to be celibate, or to enjoy loving relationships with women.

After all, if you come to the priesthood already married, the church doesn't make you divorce. There are practicing Catholic married priests, and the world has not come to a flaming end.

But no, the aged church hierarchy, if anything, dug in. And so it was, perhaps, inevitable that someone like Rev. Alberto Cutie would come along and raise the eternally fascinating practice of celibacy, for public discussion, once again. Just when the flap over The Da Vinci Code was fading from memory. Just in time for Dan Brown's upcoming book tour, and Ron Howard's new film.

Cutie got caught by the tabloids, canoodling on the beach with a lady friend. He has acknowledged that he is conflicted and needs to work on some personal issues. But his defense is pretty convincing. He fell in love, and failed to see how that best of human emotions could be so wrong.

"I was motivated by love for someone, by a good thing, a healthy and a good desire in my heart," he said on TV yesterday. "And at the same time, I just need to make decisions. And I shouldn't be making them in public, but that's exactlywhat happened."

I cannot vouch for Cutie. He may be like one of those TV preachers who gets caught in a tryst, insists it was a one-time thing, and then disappears to rehab when the National Enquirer finds scores of sexual partners, of various disciplines, in his background.

But if he is who he says he is, I have t o sympathize. And so, apparently, do three-fourths of the Catholics of Miami who, when polled, said it was fine for their priests to marry.

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Celibate Male Power Addiction

I think at its root mandated celibacy is about addiction to power and control. This addiction is causing huge problems within Catholicism, and, like addiction to drugs or alcohol, the addict refuses to discuss it. Any serious discussion about mandated celibacy in the heirarchy is forbidden. Check out my website about this and other problems within the Catholic priesthood. www.leavingthepriesthood.com

The Liberation of Catholic Priests/Bishops and Catholic Children.

I was unable to find the above mentioned facebook group - The Liberation of Catholic Priests/Bishops and Catholic Children is that the correct name of the group ?

The Liberation of Catholic Priests/Bishops and Catholic Children.

I was unable to find the above mentioned facebook group - The Liberation of Catholic Priests/Bishops and Catholic Children is that the correct name of the group ?

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John Aloysius Farrell is a contributing editor at U.S. News & World Report. An award-winning Washington reporter, he has written for The Boston Globe and The Denver Post and is the author of Tip O’Neill and the Democratic Century and an upcoming biography of the great American defense attorney, Clarence Darrow.

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